Look, gays have enough problems without us straights picking on them. But gays, by the same token, ought to bug out of our definition of things. And stop pushing your (literally) God-damned agenda down our throats.
As for that gay judge in California, he declared the California constitution unconstitutional. Sounds wrong when it’s written that way, yet that’s what it was: wrong. That’s no way to run a state, folks. Do gays have a constitutional right to be married? No, just as straights don’t have a “constitutional” right to marriage. Or not be married.
I repeat: marriage is not the business of the state. One way or the other.